Evidence

Feeling thoughtfully regarded by others can reassure us that we matter. This need may inspire courteous communication, attentive listening, and taking others’ feelings into account. When people treat each other with consideration, it builds mutual respect and trust, reducing friction in groups and helping everyone feel valued.

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Consideration (Respect) — Being respected and valued by those around us is not just pleasant but crucial for our well-being. Psychological research suggests that feeling respected correlates with higher satisfaction, motivation, and self-esteem. In one analysis of workplace factors, respect was identified as the top driver of job satisfaction and engagement—employees who felt respected by peers and leaders were more productive and less likely to quit (SHRM study, discussed in Psychology Today, 2024). Beyond the workplace, feeling that others appreciate and admire you significantly improves happiness. Notably, a study in the journal Psychological Science found that feeling respected and valued had a stronger impact on people’s happiness than their income level (as summarized by Anderson et al. 2012). In essence, when our need for consideration is met, we experience greater well-being and social connection, whereas being treated with indifference or disrespect can harm trust and mental health.

Supporting sources

  1. Journal of Applied Psychology study linking supervisor respect with employee outcomes (https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/27856728/)
  2. Academy of Management Journal research on respect and constructive voice behavior (https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/0149206310385943)
More sources
  1. Literature review connecting interpersonal respect with well-being (https://www.scirp.org/reference/referencespapers?referenceid=3495223)
  2. Peer-reviewed analysis of respectful care improving patient experiences (https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC6298854/)

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